DRINKING DIFFERENTLY THIS CHRISTMAS? EXPLORE THE CHRISTMAS & NEW YEAR HUB →
It’s Christmas time, and there’s no need to be afraid…
But when you’re working on cutting back your alcohol intake, the festive season can be quite a daunting time.
Everyone and everything is centred around eating (yay) and drinking (hmm) in copious amounts, and saying no at this time of year can seem like an impossible challenge.
You can’t avoid Christmas drinks, whether you work in an office, a factory, in retail or transport; there’s a party for every department, and your entire diary can feel like it’s full of appointments to drink.
And if you happen to work in certain industries (like I did in hospitality), it literally surrounds you every minute of every working day.
But fear not, intrepid reader, for I am here with my trusty old wisdom chest to try to arm you with tools and talismans to ward off the booze bandits so that you can take back control of your Christmas and ensure that you drink on your own terms and don’t succumb to the pressures of other people’s festive expectations.
1. Alternate
We’ll get the obvious one out of the way first. It’s a very simple process and one which even the seasoned drinker should be employing to minimise the morning hangover, but making sure you have one non-alcoholic drink after every boozy one is a simple way to cut your drinking in half without calling too much attention to it. It even has a fancy new name: zebra striping.
2. First In, First Out
Arrive early and leave early. If you don’t really feel like socialising and would rather be at home in the warm with your feet up and Corrie on the box, then getting in a quickie to show your face and ducking out before the mayhem ensues is a sure-fire way to keep the overboozing at bay.
3. Evoke Your Inner Smugness
There are few things more powerful in the quest to cut back on your drinking than walking into a room full of people who are already half-cut (or on their way) and seeing just how charming drunk really looks on them.
This is not about judgement (I know it sounds like it is, but it’s not, I promise) – to each their own. Instead, it’s about thinking whether you really want to join in with the ‘in-crowd’ to that extent just for the sake of a few shots.
If not, you can take your ‘smug git power’ to the bar, order your AF drink of choice and relax back, knowing how much better you’ll feel in the morning, as Terry from accounting knee-slides across the hall with his tie around his forehead.
4. Make A Date
Drinking is not the most important thing you need to do this Christmas. So prioritise the things that are. Make a date with a friend that you haven’t seen in a long time; plan a trip with the kids to visit Father Christmas (Santa to my friends across the pond); book in to treat yourself to something meaningful that you don’t want to miss.
Having the focus of something important to do doesn’t always stop you from drinking (we’ve all had many a hangover at the area meeting), but having something that’s important to the people that you love or something that comes at an expense to you is a very powerful incentive.
5. Find A Friend
Moderating your drinking is not just a fad; it’s here to stay! Once you start to embrace it and talk openly about your choice to drink less, you will be amazed at how many people feel the same way (it’s how I knew there was call for a site like this, as so many of the people I spoke to told me they secretly felt the same way).
Find a mindful drinking/moderating/sober curious friend in your workplace who feels the same way you do and be there to help each other out.
This doesn’t mean we judge or shame someone else if they choose to drink that night; instead, be there to support each other through temptation or overwhelm, or just take comfort in knowing that someone else is going through the same thing too.
6. BYO
Going to a house party, dinner party or a BYO venue. Then definitely do bring your own… and then bring some more.
The last thing you want to do is run out because you only brought a 4-pack of low-alcohol beers or one bottle of AF bubbles and then be left with no option but the hard stuff or tap water.
There are a ton of low, no and mid-strength products available now, and some of them are really excellent. Some, admittedly, are still a work in progress, but Christmas is a great excuse to try out as many as you can.
7. Plan Ahead
Make sure you know where you’re going for drinks, and check out the menu online. A lot of venues now have a dedicated alcohol-free section on their menu. If they don’t, contact the bar, ask them what they can offer and decide before you get there what you’ll be drinking that night.
That way, since the decision is already made, you’ll be less likely to throw moderation to the wind and start glugging the full-strength vino like a desert camel.
8. Manage Expectations
There is absolutely no harm and definitely no shame in letting people know that you’re choosing not to drink at an event.
Looking after your own physical and mental health is the number one gift you can give yourself this Christmas (cheesy, I know, but it’s true).
Yes, you’ll have a few nosey parkers who feel it’s their place (it’s not) to ask you why you’re off the booze, but you’re under no obligation to explain yourself to anyone, and by putting it out there from the get-go that you’re not getting on the shots that night, it means no surprises and no need to keep going over old ground.
9. Choose Your Friends Wisely
There comes a time when we all know what categories our friends fall into:
There are the work friends who you like but will likely never speak to again after you leave this job; the mum/dad friends who you know from the school run/PTA and you may even have had the odd night out with, but really you’re just in it for the kids; the old-school friends who you’ve known since school/college/uni and have a history together that no one can comprehend.
And then there’s your ride-or-die friends. The ones who may have come from any of those groups but you now know will be there for you through thick and thin and everything in between.
The ones you don’t have to explain or justify yourself to and who will support you in whatever you do, no matter what.
If you have a choice this Christmas and you want the best tips for cutting back on the booze and still having the best time… go out with those friends: you’ll have a blast, and nothing else will matter.
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